Nancy Kelley Phillips How about
the guys' flattops, ducktails, white tee shirts, no belts, boots, western shirts, taps on shoes, Wildroot, and Norbert Yanez's hair? Isn't it interesting that we thought we really looked pretty good
and we did!! Toward the end of our junior year I was shocked and terrified when my name came over
the intercom and ordered me to the office. I had never been called to the office before. I was sent into Mr. Summer's office and greeted by
Miss Bailey, Miss Tolson, and Miss Kennedy. They had decided to try
and talk me out of getting married. They were sure that Jim and I
were too young, that I would never get to go to college, and that we were
courting disaster. I listened politely and thanked them, but I got
married anyway. They didn't realize that they had given me
the
I got married at the end of our junior year. But I did get my diploma from Mr. Summers, by mail. And my mother-in-law picked up my little rosewood jewelry chest from Cubitto's Jewelry Store. They wouldn't let me march. I was too pregnant. Ah, different times.
A month after our class marched without me, I had our son. Three years later we had a daughter. My life was full of Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts, Brownies, dance recitals, flute lessons, trombone traumas, piano practices, broken bones, smashed fingers, award ceremonies, sleep overs, driver license exams, swim meets, music competitions, prom dates, broken hearts, and endless teacher conferences. I got to experience the pain of driving home in tears when my "babies" were starting college and the joy of watching as they started their own independent lives and brought in-laws and grandchildren into our family. I only wish that time had gone just a little slower.
I married James "Jim" Phillips from the class of 56. We've had fifty-one years together. Jim was the smartest man I ever met (I admit to being just a little partial). When we got married I had no idea what I was in for as his wife. I was a timid, naive, ignorant kid. Boy did I have a lot to learn. I really thought Jim would finish college, he'd get a job, we'd raise a family, and we'd live right in Globe. After all Arizona is the best state in the country and we were Arizonans. Nope. He went on to graduate school and received his PhD in 1964 and began his career as a university professor.
"Home" was sequentially in Illinois, California, Michigan, and Oklahoma. So this is what I got to experience: Humidity, snow drifts, lows of -4 highs of -2, tornado warnings, flat lands, tall trees, fall colors, ice storms. I got to learn how to untie wet knotted shoestrings. Modern Michigan mothers get velcro. I got to attend faculty wives' teas, learn to
entertain, attend four great universities, listen to brilliant conversation.
I worked in two banks, ran a game shop, taught Sunday School, attended political rallies, peace marches, and four college graduations including my own. I had a double major, one in history and one in religion. I started grad school but never finished. I thought that maybe I'd go back when Jim retired but I'm way too busy. The truth is I'm not sure I could dredge up the energy or the memory banks to go back now.
I love to experiment with new and fancy recipes, try new foods, play duplicate bridge and dance. I'll spend the rest of my life marveling at what I have seen and done, the places I have visited and the people I have met. WHAT A TRIP.
When Jim retired in 1995 we came home. There IS no place like HOME. We chose not to live in Globe because we are baseball fans and we wanted to be close to the bright lights of the big city and still wake up each morning looking at mountains. But we do attend church in Globe and have lunch at Guayo's most Sundays. We have rediscovered old friends and relatives. We are truly home. I pray that all my classmates find joy and contentment in the golden years. And that we will never have to live anywhere else again.
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